If kayo ang papipiliin, big or small party for baby's first birthday?

during the first birthday of our baby girl. wala kami handa, we visited churches to offer thanks to God..then kumain kami sa labas kasi doon naman kami naabutan ng pananghalian.. it just the 3 of us offering thanks to God for the grace-her gift of life.. we took photos for her to see when she grew up.