If kayo ang papipiliin, big or small party for baby's first birthday?

just a simple family celebration.. ganun plan namin sa 1st bday ni baby hindi kami mag paparty.. kc d pa naman nya maintindihan n nag bday sya at di pa nya maeenjoy we are planning to give her a party pag nag school na sya like cguro 5, 6 or 7yrs old na that age kc alam na nya na bday nya so she can invite her classmates and friends.. yung reason naman ng party is to make LO happy and enjoy. pag 1yr old kc matutulog pa yan sa party hehe d nya maeenjoy magic show kung meron at kung ano ano palaro sa party.