If i continue to feed my girl ebm, wil she stil gt close to me wen i return to work ?

No1, exclusively pump, and my girl only want me till now. She may act coquettishly sometimes to her dad, but if choose me and her dad, it's definitely me. Bonding is not only by latching. There is many ways of bonding, like - babywear - always bring her out to play (playgrounds, walk walk) - do activities with her - play games together with her All this simple gesture, will help to bond over the time.