If you have a son, would you proudly tell him that he should be like his father when he grows up?

No. And it seems like I'm the only one who says so. I don't want my son to be like his father, I want him to be better. He's going to have struggles but I want him to learn from them and become a better man than his father has ever been (this also goes for a daughter). My husband is a good man and he's not perfect. I want my son to take his tatay's best qualities and improve those that he can improve. :)