I am worried that my kid is too attached to my helper. Does that mean she doesn't love me as much?

Many parents are afraid that a deeper bond with a helper will interfere with their child’s healthy attachment to them. However, studies show the opposite. When a child has a high-quality bond with a caregiver, this can actually help complement and reinforce parental attachment. Therefore, children who are more securely attached to both their nannies and parents feel more secure over all.

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It’s actually a good thing... it shows that her helper loves and cares for her which is what we really want! Read this: https://sg.theasianparent.com/help-think-baby-loves-the-maid-more/

Not necessarily. Children have unbound affection for people they like to be around. You will have to earn her love.

She should be part of your family. Best to have everyone happy because it takes a village.

I don't think so. Just make sure you spend enough time bonding with your baby as well.

Probably not. She’s still young.