I am really stress

I am stress... my husband and my family don't get along. We are staying in my house with my parents. My mother likes to instruct my husband to do things her way. My husband used to living alone from young so he cannot get used to someone nagging. He himself have his own way of doing stuffs. My father likes to borrow his car and nv pump fuel when is low. Or when the car spoil he will just ask my husband is it your car nv service or this or that but nv help in repairand only questions him. The last time was asking me and my husband to buys stuffs for praying and we wake up late, my father was piss, he ignore us and giving us black face when we call him. After 2 times of ignore when being call, my husband stop calling him and just ignore back. They treat each other like stranger and it's like not happy with each other. My sister son who is 15 love to be with my husband and always go around him asking this and that. Last sat, our LO was sleeping, my sister son came in and talk to my husband kept on asking what game he play? Why this why that.. my husband ask him to lower his voice baby is waking up, but my sister son kept on going and suddenly the baby cried out very loud and it trigger my husband he scold my sister son and bang the room door. After that my sister son did not talk to him anymore. So is my sister, they even delete his fb from friend list. I am really stress and I understand why my husband reacted this way. But another side they are still my family. I think my husband is really piss off with them.

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I think it's best to move out..There will always be conflict when staying with other people unless you're super accommodating and qing cai kind

I will and always protect my husband. ESPECIALLY if it's my family. Thankfully he does the same when it comes to his family. we draw a line.

Possible to move out? If I were your husband I will be pretty unhappy seeing there's no consideration & respect at all.

7y ago

we are choosing our flat in April. Getting sale of balance flats no choice the faster liao..

Thats why i will never stay with in law. 100% of the people surround me who stay with in law have the same problem.

I feel that have to talk and resolve things.. Before you even have plans to move out. Must clear the air first.

I would think is best to move out. To avoid conflict

Communicate. Else keep some social distance

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Do you have friends to help?

I would consider moving out.