Hi, This sounds like postpartum phase where in the feeling of anger, irritation and frustration is experienced a lot. I would suggest that don't be too hard on yourself and try to let it flow. If you feel angry, let it be. It all will be fine gradually. Please do share how you feel to your husband and loved ones and you will feel better. Hope it all gets better soon but don't fret on it too much.
Its better to control your anger and emotional as this affects the emotional health of your baby too. My 3 kids character actually followed my emotions during the time they are in my tummy.
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