I resigned from my job after I've given birth to my LO. Now he is 17 months old n my mil kept asking me to send him to Childcare cos she said LO when being taken care by me learns n develops v slow .. e.g. Still can't self feed using spoon, can't speak many words yet. Etc .. I'm feeling v sad .. Did I do anything wrong by wanting to take care of my LO until 3 then send him to Childcare b4 I return back to work ? Sigh .. :(

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It depends on each kid .. even I look personally my kid his learning skills are little slower , but it’s ok I saw gradual improvement on my 2 .5 yr old kid .. he is going to preschool.. hope it will help on his mental growth .. even I stop working after I conceive .. again will start once my kid is ready.. no hurry on job , but kids once grow up the days won’t come back .. so enjoy this phase mama.. Listen to ur heart

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Home Just Mums i resigned from job after ive given birth lo now 17 months old n mil kept asking send him childcare cos said lo when being taken care learns n develops v slow eg still t self feed using spoon t speak many words yet etc im feeling v sad did i anything wrong wanting take care lo until 3 then send him childcare b4 i return back work sigh