I resigned from my job after I've given birth to my LO. Now he is 17 months old n my mil kept asking me to send him to Childcare cos she said LO when being taken care by me learns n develops v slow .. e.g. Still can't self feed using spoon, can't speak many words yet. Etc .. I'm feeling v sad .. Did I do anything wrong by wanting to take care of my LO until 3 then send him to Childcare b4 I return back to work ? Sigh .. :(

Cheer up babe. Different babies development diff way. Some pick up fast and some pick up slow. Eventually; there will be one day that your lo can do it. Clear the negative thoughts from your mind. No one has the right to judge you and your lo. At e end of the day you are the mother. And i strongly believe that you know what is best for their own child. 17th month still early, let them enjoy their childhood. My lo is also 17th month, usually she will play with toys. And i give her own utentils were she can carry? Playing, ptatices. So dont tense about it.