Am I being a good mum?

I monitor how much intake of milk, water and meals every single day for the pass 18 months, I will give my girl some Gerber yoghurt drops and some biscuits but not everyday. Recently she don't really want to drink water so I gave her pigeon apple juice and dilute with water, but my husband don't like me doing that. And for her porridge sometimes there is fish floss added and very rare will put dark soy sauce but my husband thinks all these are no good. It feels like I am a bad mum and not giving my girl the best, but all I want to do is encourage my daughter to drink more water and eat more porridge. Very tired.