I am always the one at fault

Question

I am the main caregiver for my daughter, feed her, teach her, plays with her. So when she gets some scratches here and there it will always be my fault that I din do a good job. Or when her shoes are too tight my husband says then just dont wear the shoes, I am like she is walking now how can she dun wear shoes?  He say since cases are high dont go out. My girl already rarely goes out and now dont even bring her to park?  I dont know what I have done wrong, everything I do is wrong.

Oreo Cheerios · Accepted Answer

Hi there,Relax.. probably the issues in your marriage is not how you care or raised your child. Something is lacking in the marriage itself..Talk to him. Go on dates. Or have simple lunch but spend quality time together as a couple.Ask him about his expectations of the marriage, your care quality of your child, etc. Tell him what you don’t like & your expectations. He may have a lot on his plate too, but he’s just bottling things up. If you are not the best care giver available then another option is to send her to an infant care or childcare. 💁🏽‍♀️Don’t let this unhappiness prolong, it is unhealthy for your marriage.