There are many factors to consider. The age of your kids and also, where your job stands in your life. I would prefer to focus on family if there is no financial concern but you have to be prepared for a significant change of lifestyle, physically and mentally. Over time, it might take a toll on you due to the difference. Your current lifestyle allows you to enjoy financial freedom (I presume) and have a sense of fulfilment whereas a SAHM has a different set of challenges and happiness. It is important to get your husband’s support in the decision that you make and remember, your happiness is valid :) there is no right or wrong answer as long as it’s done in the best interest of your children.
Spending with family is a blessing always , once they grow we can’t see them closely , if you have a chance and you love to take it as a challenge my suggestion is quitting is the best option , you can go back when ever possible as u already have an experience of ur work life .
How about taking a break for few months first.. Take this as a chance to see if you are financially good with one salary. You can’t keep going for long with all the stress going on. May be think of changing stream ?
I might take No Paid Leave for a break and use the break to think through this important decision. I will want to be financial independent so I will continue working.
This is also something i can consider. Thanks Jing :)
It would be nice if you could take a break and focus on the kids, as mental peace would open opportunities to better tomorrow for both u n kids 👍
Maybe take a break from work first and see how it is? After recharging can decide if wanna be SAHM or work at another place and get helper
i was retrenched in early 2019 & havent resumed working yet, trying to manage 2 kids
Have you been a full time working mom all along? May i ask if you feel pressured staying at home /not working? After all, not working means no income of own :(
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