Hi Mummy, I feel the same from time to time. I’m a first time mummy and everything is challenging.. At my worst, I didn’t want to touch my baby even when she was crying. (I had a confinement nanny then, so it was ok lah) There are many opinions and expectations of a mom but they are not realistic. I don’t think any mother can say that they love the lack of sleep and the exhaustion of caring for a newborn, so please don’t beat yourself up over feeling sucky. We just try to get through the tough days until they grow bigger :)
It helps to ask for help from time to time. My husband doesn’t help as much as I thought he would but when I tell him I need time off, he will make arrangements so that I can have time to myself. I’ll go out and do something for myself - walk, coffee, facial, massage, window shop. Anything at all. I also stopped breastfeeding early when it didn’t work out which made me feel terrible but my friends keep reminding me that it is okay.
I find that it also gets more bearable when my baby started smiling and interacting with me and when I know her preferences. Just bear with it a little longer ok? I’m sure you will feel better.
Lastly, no mother is perfect and you are still an awesome mother for carrying, birthing your baby and ensuring your toddler is cared for. Hang in there! ❤️❤️
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