So tired but husband unable to take care of baby

You only have 2 ways around this. Tell him to man up and step up (show him how you do it and get him to repeat until right) OR you suck it up and suffer on your own full stop. My hubby was whining about backaches ya da ya da while I was in my confinement. All I wanted to do was to give him one tight slap or maybe throw in a few punches if I could, but I was simply too weak. But I held it all in, and I said in the meanest tone: Have you been thru Army? Pls don't tell me this baby here is heavier than your gun and backpack! Be a Fu*kin Man bcos I just Fu*kin got sliced a 10cm hole to bring out this child of yours!! So either you shut up and start learning or go cut your own Di*k!!!

Knock some sense into him that he IS THE FATHER. Not just some helper, but a FATHER. Don’t expect the mother to do everything, and youre just there with your lame excuse just to avoid doing it. Learn learn and learn. Practice makes perfect definitely. Dont just try few times then give up. Agree with another mummy, ask him to learn from you. I also couldnt soothe my baby when he was crying esp the first few weeks but i learnt and copied from my mum’s ways and it works

He NEEDS to be a functional father. There’s a will, there’s a way. Ask him to watch and learn from you. Start by copying your methods. You need to let go and let him do it.

Is he even putting his 100% effort in helping and learning from you? He is the father of the baby! I believe if he really wants to do it properly, he can definitely do it.

my husband was like that with newborn too! it gets better after 2-3months.