I am currently 29wks into pregnancy, and I feel that my sexual needs are higher than my partner. He doesnt initiate often also does not seems to want it as often as I do, sometimes if i dont do it I feel fustrated and unwanted and rejected. How do your counter the issue?

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My husband is having same response as yours and I think it is quite normal (I have a few friends also commented same thing). For my husband, he feels guilty as he thinks that it will hurt me and our baby. I treat it as the way he shows concern and love to me and our unborn baby. You can ask gynae about if it is safe to have sex in front of your husband so to reassure him that it is perfectly fine. It takes 2 willing parties to enjoy the sex.

James Stanbridge

Father of Molly (9) and George (6)

9y ago

I don't mean to suggest this is true for this case - but there is an issue to watch out for, where I could start to change my view of my partner from lover, to mother that is unhelpful or over done. It is most natural but still quite a surprise for some o

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