I am a mother of a 2 yr old and we are planning a baby. We have made several attempts but doctors say that we as a couple cannot conceive. My family is very religious and superstitious. We have a religious Guru who says I should have sex with him and will surely conceive. That's tantric sex. My in laws are encouraging me to do the same saying it will be service to the Guru and my husband too feels this is the last resort. What should I do? I am not really in favor of this option.

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Oh my, outrageous. Simply taking advantage of you and your husband's condition. Please don't do it, no matter what your religious parents say because it is you and your body's right to not consent to some religious Guru. Please don't take the risk, my dear. YOU KNOW BETTER. And your in laws are messed up. Sorry but it's a huge red flag, doesn't matter if they're religious or not.

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Also, seek medical attention and buy some ovulation tests, they are available at Watson's or any pharmacy.

really? that's what the solution is? in that case, why don't you ask them that instead of the guru, you will choose who you want to have sex with other than your husband, and then the baby who you conceive should be accepted by everyone with equal love, respect and rights. works for them? i think the answer will be no, and you will get your own answer too.

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Don't listen to that guru, have some paition.. cosult a doctor....talk to Ur family.. specially Ur husband.. as u mentioned u have 2 year old baby already.. Don't give up.. I don't know what's U boths medical conditions but now a days there are several options are available for pregnancy.... Just consultant doctor

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My dear sleeping with will mean that 1st u unfaithful to your hubby,, 2.once he find out even those who support u to do that will not be there, even if they will man that's just crazy religion ain't normal, only God gives children he knows when will be the right time for to have the baby.....

I don't think you should, you already had a child. That means that it's not that you're infertile. Just try to be a little bit patient and give yourself a chance as a couple. Did the doctor says why you guys cannot conceive? follow your heart what's wrong and what's not

Oh no.. There are other options like IUI or AI procedure if you really cannot conceive as a couple. Have you consulted specialists from different hospitals to make sure that you have exhausted all possible means so you can conceive again? I don't buy this practice, sorry..

Please don't! This guru is just taking advantage! I rather you go for IVF. please go and consult a gynae. Perhaps you and husband can check on diet and lifestyle instead. At most, it is just not yet your destiny to have a 2nd child now. God has better plans for u.

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i understand your situation i m agree with others who commented here but find proper way to talk with your hubby & in law because straight deny will ruin peace in family so just keep convince them with patience Life is worth

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Actually since you already have a child I don’t find any reason why can’t you have second. I Guess you are being too stress over it. Try to relax yourself and everything will come to you. All the best!