I am very open and expressive in bed however my husband has very little experience.

My husband is very nice man and we didn’t have premarital sex during our 3 years of dating . Now that we are married , I realise he does not have much experience in bed and reflects a big contrast oppose to mine to the extend I do not enjoy the deed anymore like how I used. Now I feels like a task instead as we are trying to conceive, we do not do it leisurely but we do it when I am ovulating and to be honest it’s not a good feeling. I wonder if this is normal or has anyone experiencing the same situation ? How should I hint him to get more involve in making love during our daily lives .#advicepls

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I used to be in yr situation too. But after afew months, i just took the lead in trying out different things w him and he eventually became more bold in initiating love making. We also had an open conversation where i told him honestly that i wished he could be more involved and he admits that he is just shy since he doesnt have much experience. Sometimes men find it hard to get hints so i went ahead and decided to just b honest 😅 We were ttc too! But i eventually stop keeping track of my ovulation dates as it was starting to feel like a routine and just told my hubby to take it easy and just enjoy the process instead, and i got pregnant that same year. hope it all works out for you soon! 😊

How about watch porn together? Maybe tell him you would like him to watch it with you so you guys can learn some tricks to enjoy this process. (Obviously don’t tell him it’s for him to learn.) You can also ask like, why not we watch this and we try out like how they are doing etc etc. There’s nothing wrong with it and chances are he will secretly love it. No harm trying in hopes for your deeds to be more spiced up and enjoyable. ☺️

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1y ago

It’s normal for us to awkward to talk about this hahah. But yes, after the first talk, you’ll definitely see a big difference 🥹. And agreed with the comment below, we TTC for a year and there was months when we did it every single day yet still failed. Got rid of the trackings and just did it naturally, took my folic acid (damn important) and conceived the next month! Don’t stress and Goodluck! ❤️

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Its normal what you are experiencing even for other couples. Talking is important and creating a safe space to talk about sensitive matters. No quick fix and it will take time. But your love for each other is already the foundation to have these conversations

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