My husband has been caught using tinder by my friends and i even found alot evidence matching to him using tinder. Found ss photos of the tinder girls on his “screenshot” folder, the day he used the photo the dates all match up to when i caught him using, otp of tinder to log in or something, emails flooded with tinder promotional emails ever since that month which i caught him using. Have talked to him the previous time when i didnt had much evidence, was blamed on scolded on and even manipulated. Forgave him and kept quiet, yesterday was such a hectic day just cant stand his attitude getting worse on me. So i checked his phone, became sherlock and found all those extra details. All layed out nicely that he did use tinder, but he kept denying and even shouted and screamed at me for disrespecting him to checking his phone. He say even if im his wife i have no rights to check his phone at all. Tbh i dont even check his phone or anything. But yesterday my friend suggested it cause of similar scenarios. I checked once and already kena so bad. Blamed, shouted, screamed, manipulated all saying he did not use!! And only kept lying to himself and everyone around us. Thanks for reading, any mummies felt the same way?

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Sorry that how you are feeling. I was in that shoes where i literally keep quiet and do my own things. When i confronted him, mother fucker jump to conclusions and blaming me for all. When i sleeps, i unlock his password to check, all the messages i read its coming from his colleagues in which both hving affair. I intiated to have intimacy, he declined. So where is the trust?? He has verbally abused his words to the extend i cant take it. He left house and my child just to stay with mistress. He did not show up for 1 year. Until i message him lets end this marriages because there is no meaning. Even i intiated marriage counselling, all not bothered. I am just sick and tired. Finally i m a divorcee now. Very happy as i have my child that makes me strong mummy. I hoped that couples work things out. Unfortunately, mine did not. I do feel sad, emotional, but altermately you know what you want and best. Take care my dear.

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