My husband is being a total pain. He doesn't help out with the chores at home and only proactively cares for lo in public. At home, everything is again thrust onto my lap. When i gently remind him to help out, he says tt i am nagging. When I demand that he helps, he says tt i have an attitude. I honestly can't take it anymore. Don't know if it is the hormones but i feel like I am falling out of love with him! Anyone feels / have felt the same before? Any good advice?

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Ask him to come up with a chore list he thinks is fair. Tell him you are open to any division of labour but let him take the lead on what he should do and what you should do. This is so you don't come across as bossy. No one likes a bossy pants ;) and it will seem like he's the one in charge.

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Home Just Mums husband being total pain doesnt help out with chores home only proactively cares lo in public home everything again thrust onto lap when i gently remind him help out says tt i nagging when i demand that helps says tt i have attitude i honestly t take anymore dont know if hormones but i feel like i falling out love with him anyone feels have felt same before good advice