My husband is being a total pain. He doesn't help out with the chores at home and only proactively cares for lo in public. At home, everything is again thrust onto my lap. When i gently remind him to help out, he says tt i am nagging. When I demand that he helps, he says tt i have an attitude. I honestly can't take it anymore. Don't know if it is the hormones but i feel like I am falling out of love with him! Anyone feels / have felt the same before? Any good advice?

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Try coming up with a schedule and divide the chores up. Print it out and have it somewhere he can see. Instead of nagging, you can simply refer him to the schedule to remind him that certain chores have not been completed. Of course, he must first agree to dividing the tasks up first and perhaps let him choose (from a list) what he would do. Not sure if this would help but probably worth a try. ;)

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Home Just Mums husband being total pain doesnt help out with chores home only proactively cares lo in public home everything again thrust onto lap when i gently remind him help out says tt i nagging when i demand that helps says tt i have attitude i honestly t take anymore dont know if hormones but i feel like i falling out love with him anyone feels have felt same before good advice