Does your husband accompany you for your gynae check?

My husband ask me if he is needed whenever I say I have a gynae visit which is kind of irritating me very big time. I feel he does not want to be involve and rather be at work than to go through these pregnancy with me. I have always been independent. I never needed him for such things but after I started talking to my friends and realise , everyone’s partner accompany them for almost every gynae check which make me start to feel irritated when he ask me why I have so many checkup just because 2 is arranged by kkH and 1 is by private gynae and all happen in 1 month to go through the FTS and etc… I don’t know if it’s my hormones or is he really making my pregnancy lonely..

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My husband asked me if he needs to accompany me for gynae visits and I told him no (except for important visits like gender reveal or other matters) because it eats up his leave (only mummies get MC). Besides, private gynae visits are very short and I see no point for him to waste his leave for a short visit to the gynae’s office. If you really wish that he follows you to every visit, just let him know and I’m sure he accommodate! 😊

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2y ago

Thank you for sharing… because initially I felt the same as you but after I spoke to others, my friends comment kinda make me feel he is not involved enough.. but now yes I will know how to manage better again knowing that I am not alone ! 😂

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