Does your husband accompany you for your gynae check?

My husband ask me if he is needed whenever I say I have a gynae visit which is kind of irritating me very big time. I feel he does not want to be involve and rather be at work than to go through these pregnancy with me. I have always been independent. I never needed him for such things but after I started talking to my friends and realise , everyone’s partner accompany them for almost every gynae check which make me start to feel irritated when he ask me why I have so many checkup just because 2 is arranged by kkH and 1 is by private gynae and all happen in 1 month to go through the FTS and etc… I don’t know if it’s my hormones or is he really making my pregnancy lonely..

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I never heard of anyone who doesn’t want to accompany wife to gynae appointment. The problem is not you, it is him. Everyone is excited about the arrival of this newborn and looking forward to every appointment is like seeing the baby grow from one dot to something that finally look more human. He should also be there for you in case there are any issues with the pregnancy.

Anonymous

2y ago

I keep wondering if it’s my issue that he is not involved .. but I guess I didn’t communicate enough with him and he assume that I will be fine when I always have been doing things on my own 😅

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