Does your husband accompany you for your gynae check?

My husband ask me if he is needed whenever I say I have a gynae visit which is kind of irritating me very big time. I feel he does not want to be involve and rather be at work than to go through these pregnancy with me. I have always been independent. I never needed him for such things but after I started talking to my friends and realise , everyone’s partner accompany them for almost every gynae check which make me start to feel irritated when he ask me why I have so many checkup just because 2 is arranged by kkH and 1 is by private gynae and all happen in 1 month to go through the FTS and etc… I don’t know if it’s my hormones or is he really making my pregnancy lonely..

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Yes, because I want him to be involved and I want company. Guys are a very straight forward and single minded creature, if you want him to accompany you for every visit, just tell him in advance and ask him to apply leave. Unless he is very very enthu, he will just think you don’t need him to be there, especially when you said you are always independent. Just tell him, “I have a visit on xx and I hope you can be there with me every visit.”

Anonymous

2y ago

U are so lucky to have your husband with you… I feel like I am living like a single mum who is in contact with a night stand baby dad who is responsible for the bill.. lol

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