About SIL

Is hurtful when you put in a lot of effort to make situation better. Saw a text from her to her brother. Say that she miss those time when they R young. My husband will bring her to shop around. She says she only wants the time with her brother. She doesn't want all of us together. Is so hurtful. To be honest, whn I just know her, I put a lot of effort for her. As the brother bought her up and I be more understanding. But the brother ask me to stop coz he says she won't be appreciate. As she only will see what she wants. She is a spoiled kid. No job at this age, doesn't want to accept people comment. And use things never put back to where it shall be etc. Tbh I quite fet up with her after my baby is born. I feel why will this kind of human exist. No job, do things very loud, when we ask her to lighter her movement, she will give one face, sick don't know how to auto, even sick also carry my baby. When baby is crying, coz that time she cry for milk after bathe. Then my MIL was changing for her and wanna pass to be to feed. But she wanna carry her. And keep comfort and ask her don't cry, then slowly walk into my room. I feel fet up when seeing this again. And she will jealous my baby who have everyone attention. Say the mother changed ady. Not as caring as last time. And sometimes I quite turn off when I see her. I don't know why too. I feel so terrible.