My hubby just wants to get into the act and get it done and seriously, I'm getting pretty upset about it. Feel like he's using me just to relief his sexual urge. I want more foreplay but he doesn't want....says its a waste of time. How do I persuade him to have more foreplay?

I would say catch him off guard. tease him a little. Maybe you try to play hard to get. Some guys likes to get it done fast and quick, whereas some prefers to have slow and steady. Talk it out with your hubby. Come down to a point which both will be happy and satisfied! Happy Sex! ;D