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Some simple thing my hub do with the kids and he bond well instead of me everything bond with the kids. (Maybe to them, daddy is going to play with them) Bonding through activities. Bring them down for playgrounds (i assuming they are still young) Do things that mummies seldom do with them like maybe bring for ice-cream once awhile. Accompany kids playing their toys together. (Some toys like lego, magformers is suitable for adults and children playing together) Go out more often together as family, to park or anywhere, don't use phone, bond together thru activities.
I am a mummy and my girl has quite a good balance between choosing daddy and I. Usually I try to have one or two days of me time. And that's when they bond together. Of cos. On usual days, the dad is task to do things like read to our child and play toys together.
Quality time and not quantity. Make and dedicate a slot for the family. During that period no phones and other distractions. Materials will not help. We need to enter our childs world and in order for that we need to spend quality time with them.
I guess the easiest way is to be involved! Show interest in whatever they are doing and be involve with what they are doing. Communication is the most important in any kind of relationship. Share your feelings with them, be open and positive.
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spend more time with your kid. the initial stage will be difficult they may jus ignore you but the more u stick around and play with them the more they will learn to rely on u and look forward to u coming to play
Stop multi-tasking! When you ask them questions or they are telling you a story, stop what you are doing, get on their level, and really listen to them. All the other stuff can wait.
My hb alway out of town.. 1 mth mostly away half a month.. He dun have trouble w my kids... He come back hm.. Will definitely play w them.. Bath dem and send them to sch tgt w me.
If you ask me, I'd choose to leave the kids to daddy for a few hours during weekends & get them to spend quality time tgt whil I have my own free time too :)
Go to play sports of your choice and you son's together. May be bowling, foot ball. Or create build some thing together may be something.