how do you handle the stress of taking care of everything? the baby, the house, the spouse, yourself.

Priortize is the key word . Baby always come 1st , household chores can do when baby napping / spouse help keep a look out . It's ok if house looks messier . For myself , I'll ask my parents to look after baby for a few hours while I go do something that I want or simply go on a date with husband .