How do you handle repeated offense in marriage?

It depends on your family dynamics. Are you the type of couple who really talk about your marriage problems and work together to solve it? Like in our case, I talk to my spouse about it - ask for the reason it happened again and his plans to avoid it in the future. I also ask him of there's anything I can do to help him to prevent ot from happening again. I usually do this after I have calmed down so we can talk objectively.

If by "repeated offense" you mean cheating, and I assume you do, I would seek out help from a marriage counselor.

You should talked ur husband.