How would you all feel if your husband tells you that his female cousin is equally as important as you are to him? I find that she has been texting him very often. On the surface it seems like she is asking opinion. But I think it is too much. They have so many cousin why she keep coming to my husband? So we quarrel today and I ask my husband if she is equally important than me as your wife. He actually say YES!!! I feel like divorcing this heartless man who never treasure me at all after so many years of marriage.

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For how long have you been married? Pls do not make any hasty decisions when you are angry. Try to understand his view point also. We all are more close to some friends/cousins than others. May be he would have been irritated and said YESSS to win an argument. Texting a cousin often should never end up as a reason for divorce. Marriage is much more than that. A great marriage doesnt happen because of the love or attraction you had in the beginning but how well you continue building love until the end.

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