How would you all feel if your husband tells you that his female cousin is equally as important as you are to him? I find that she has been texting him very often. On the surface it seems like she is asking opinion. But I think it is too much. They have so many cousin why she keep coming to my husband? So we quarrel today and I ask my husband if she is equally important than me as your wife. He actually say YES!!! I feel like divorcing this heartless man who never treasure me at all after so many years of marriage.

I think a lot of modern woman does not understand man prospective. To a righteous man, an extended family is equally as important as family. This has been deep rooted in man belief since ancient times where extended family banner man are called to arms in time of war. That is why there are so many inter family marriage. Modern woman seems to think that once a man married them, they own the man. Sadly this is a reality of current liberal age. In fact is the opposite in the past, a woman married into a family, she essentially have to side with the said family. That is why in the bible the woman have to be submissive. Colossians 3:18- Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Now the above is not an excuse or justification for what he said, I'm merely explaining his mentality. There is no right or wrong but to call for divorce over small issue like this, speak badly too.