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Here are the 5 things I’ve learned along the way that can help your child keep food on their plate, rather than on your ceiling: Tip #1: Limit the Food on Your Toddler’s Plate Place just a few bites on her plate and encourage her to eat by sitting down next to her and modeling how you eat. Be simple and direct. You might say “Mommy loves her chicken,” then place a piece on your fork, eat it and smile and say “Yummy.” See if your child will imitate you. This may take several or more tries, but eventually kids get curious and want to parrot what they parents do. - Tip #2: Is Your Child Bored or Hungry? I noticed a pattern with my children who were the food throwers in our family—they weren’t hungry. Because we have a large family, it was hard to get the toddlers to want to eat at our regular family dinnertime. The food throwing became a means of entertainment because they just had no desire to eat. So to counteract that, I started feeding my toddler-aged kids an hour after our family dinner and this cut food throwing down by nearly 75%! Tip #3: Redirect the Throw Sometimes there was absolutely no rhyme or reason as to what food my kids would throw. Most times it was a vegetable or something they were not interested in, but other times it was one of their favorites like macaroni and cheese. So I figured out a way to alter the trajectory. I put two empty plastic bowls on the high chair (or at the table) and when I saw my son pick up an item that I knew he was going to hurl, I tried to redirect the throw by showing him the empty bowls and saying “You don’t need to throw the food, put it in the bowl instead.” This took a few meals and my modeling it to teach him, but having two empty bowls gave him a choice as to which one he was going to put his unwanted food in, and within a couple of weeks, it worked like a charm. (A few of times he did throw the bowls on the floor, and then I simply removed him from the highchair or table and told him that mealtime was now all done.) Tip #4: Distract Your Child’s Attention Try letting your child play with a spoon or child-appropriate fork when they are eating a meal. Learning to use cutlery certainly has its own challenges, but a new experience like learning to lift some yogurt or pasta from plate to mouth can temporarily take your little darling’s mind off of throwing the food and shift his attention to doing something different with it—feeding it to himself by means other than fingers. Kids love to model what they see and when they see the rest of the family using silverware, they are interested in giving it a try themselves. If you have older children, let them help your younger child learn the ropes of eating, not throwing. It helps build your older child’s self esteem because you are counting on them to be a role model, and your younger child now has one more reason to look up to his older brother or sister. Tip #5: End the Meal if Food Throwing Continues If you’ve tried any of the suggestions above and the food throwing continues, you need to take a tougher stance. When your gentle reminder that mealtime is for eating, not playing, goes unheeded, it’s time to end the meal. Clear your child’s place and remove him from the high chair or table. You can lovingly but firmly say “We eat our food, we don’t throw it. You must not be hungry right now so we’ll wait until dinner to try again.” Only do this, however, if you plan on being consistent. Don’t remove her from the table and then bargain with her that if she doesn’t throw the food, she can sit back down again. You are not going to starve her or cause physiological damage by doing this a few times until she gets the message. Kids are much smarter than we give them credit for. Once they see that you mean business, they will eventually stop the bad behavior (until they find something else to test you with) and you’ll be enjoying meals together in no time. A child throwing food is one of the most normal yet frustrating behaviors that we parents face, especially when we dine out at a restaurant or when it continues for what seems like an eternity. Stay tuned in to your child when this happens. It could be as simple as him just not being hungry, or more likely she’s feeling her oats, not eating them. Try the tips above for a few weeks and remember to stay consistent and don’t let them see you get frustrated. This too shall pass, and someday you’ll be sharing these strategies with other parents who will be facing the same messy situation!
My cousin had the same issue with my niece when she was slightly past 14 months. My cousin suspects that my niece was simply bored with her food and was no longer hungry. What she did then was to simply remove my niece's plate once my niece seemed like she is done with her meal. Then, she would offer her snacks in between meals (such as smoothies or mini muffins or string cheese etc) that she has prepared (in moderate amounts so as not to affect the main meal times). She still keep to having the three main meals and as much as possible, dinner time would be family time where everyone sits at the table to eat. In all, she feels that it helped to "discourage" the playing with food behaviour (since my niece had no food to play with) and at the same time ensure that she is getting enough nutrients required. Here are some of the muffin recipes that she referred to: http://www.babyfoode.com/blog/2014/6/9/5-great-muffin-recipes
This can be very frustrating but it's important to remember that most kids learn through touch and play and so applying this to food is not unusual. First, pinpoint the reason for this behavior. It could either be that s/he doesn't like it, is afraid to try it or s/he's just not hungry. For foods s/he doesn't like, try changing up the presentation next time you serve it to them. Allow them time to explore foods they're not sure about. Don't force them if they're not hungry. You can also take the food away if they just keep playing with it. Give them allowances but with a firm hand in order to encourage better table manners in the future. :)
Most toddlers will go through a stage where they play with their food - it's a healthy and normal thing. Yes, things might get a bit messy, but that's part of the discovery process! Of course, you don't always have the time to sit around and wait for him to decide he wants to eat, in which case, feeding is a good option as well. If he's fussy, try the rapid-fire technique, where you keep going with tiny bits of food to keep them busy.
If babies are hungry, they will eat their food. I don't encourage spoon feeding because they will grow reliant on being fed. Perhaps you could try getting him to help out with cooking the food so that he will feel proud of making his own lunch or dinner and be more open to finishing his food.
Certified family physician, Dr. Dana Srither says feeding problems is a common occurrence among kids. She has helpful tips in this article: h.theasianparent.com/picky_eaters_by_dr_dana_elliott_srither/ Best to look at it positively and learn from each experience.
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