How do you deal with your child if you found out that he/she is a bully?

children often get into bullying if they themsevles are insecure about something. also, many times we parents unknowingly bully our children, and they end up copying us. none of us realizes that it is this that is leading to the practice of bullying. i would say talk to your child immediately and say very clearly that this behaviour is bad and will not be allowed. also, ask if a parent or someone else has behaved like this with the child, and if yes, try to understand why that happened and tell your child that the person in question was wrong. don't be angry or punish, but try to understand and talk.