How do you deal with your child if you found out that he/she is a bully?

you know, bullying often comes naturally to a lot of kids, and unless they are specifically told so, they do not realize they are doing something wrong. if you see your kid is a bully, tell him or her immediately that this behaviour is wrong and has to stop immediately. say that if your kid wants something done a certain way, he can request the other person to do so, but definitely not scare or force them. be sure to stay calm while speaking, so that you yourself do not come across as a bully.