Husband who shouts at you

I can be pretty hot tempered myself.. so I would walk away if I could to prevent it from becoming a shouting match. Depending on your husband's personality, walking away may sometimes provoke him more if he perceives it as "disrespecting" him. In that case, I would probably just keep quiet. I feel that in such instances, the most important thing is to keep calm. Let the other party vent first and then wait till he has calmed down before addressing his points. Having both parties being worked up will not get you anywhere. The issue may end up being unresolved. Take deep breathes to help keep your cool.