How do you cope with no help?

Myself and husband have to arrange the schedule properly to take care of children after work and bb been placed in infant care

Try to stay positive and try to plan a schedule on the things that need to clear urgently or can wait.

Generally dividing the work between myself and husband which really makes stuff easier

Above all that, most importantly is to maintain good communication.

hmm cope in what sense? with work or with baby?

change your job