Almost 1 month PP

FTM here I just want to vent out. Mag 1 month na po si LO via NSD. I had an episiotomy umabot near sa pwet ko, until now hirap pa din magpupu and hindi pa magaling ang tahi at sugat. I am also currently dealing with a problem. Hindi kami ok ng family ko. Yung mother ko it turns out hindi niya pala tanggap hubby ko simula palang ikasal kami. Kaya pala simula proposal until wedding namin halos ayaw niya sumama. Ang dami kong naririnig na negative things sinasabi behind our backs. Puro ka toxican, hindi man lang nila tanungin if kamusta na ako puro lang sila negative comments. Kinausap ko hubby ko and shnare ko yung mga nalaman ko, sumama na din lalo loob ng husband ko sa family ko. They think I’m a failure kasi hindi ako nakapag abroad like my brother. Tapos right now food business ang source of income namin ng hubby ko. We didn’t asked anything from them, and yet minamaliit nila kami. I am just thankful na mababait ang mga in laws ko andyan sila to guide us. Samantalang sa side ng family ko imbis na iguide and support kami puro sita, puna, pagalit. Nakakasama ng loob sobra 😭 To think na 2 nalang kami ng mom ko here in the PH. Almost everyday ako umiiyak. Buti nalang naintindihan ako ng hubby ko and he is very patient with me. I don’t know how to deal with my family anymore. Any advise po mga mommies?

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just talk to ur mother na hindi lagi ung gusto nila ung masusunod. kausapin mo na directly and sabhin mo ung gusto mong sabhin in a moderate way khit gnyan trato sayo. since gnyan siya or sila.. just cut the ties. just focus sa family na binuo. dont stress urself

Magbasa pa

advise ko dedmahin mo nanay mo. Wala ka na magawa ganyan na ugali nya eh edi hayaan mo. mag focus ka nalng sis sa baby mo at sa family mo. Learn how to ignore negativity in your life kasi sa ngayon ang lriority mo na is ur own family.