For mummies with more than 1 kid, how do you divide your time between them? Do you feel guilty towards the other when you are playing with one? Almost 5 months passed & I'm still feeling the same!

i have a 4 year old and a 10 year old, and try as i might, it is sometimes really hard to divide the time between the two. i also feel guilty many times. i make it a point to take my elder one out on a lunch or dinner date at least once in 1 or 2 weeks. this gives us exclusive time with each other and she can share everything with me, without worrying about me caring for the younger one. also, when i drop my elder one to her hobby class, i use the time to take the younger one to the garden and we indulge in a lot of play time there. as your younger one is still quite small, you can ask your partner or other family member to spend the time with baby so that you can devote that time only to the older one.