What to do?

My first TVS at 8 weeks no heart beat po ang aking baby (fetal demise). I did second opinion, after 4 weeks did another ultra sound today, no heart beat padin po and my baby is really gone. :'( What to do? The OB didnt tell me what to do. Will the fetus come out naturally? Meron po bang iinumin? Please help. Maraming salamat po.

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Same po tayo. Walang heartbeat hanggang sa nawala na yung laman nung sac 😢 Started doing tvs at my 5th week, was advised to take 4x a day ng duphaston(98each pa yun), kahit walang bleeding or spotting, plus vitamins. I didn’t care gaano kamahal basta mabigay ko lang best ko for the baby. Check up every week to check for heartbeat pero wala pa rin 2-3 weeks akong nag duphaston. I just had to accept na binawi sya agad samen, despite the effort, money spent, and love, if di pa talaga siguro time, hindi pa talaga siguro 😔 Na d&c ako and was told to conceive pa after 3 months para marest matres ko. And thanks God, binalik samen. 5th week ko ulet pero di pako nagpapacheck up kase natatakot ako na baka maulit ulit 😭 currently taking quatrofol, eating healthy and moderately and getting a lot of rest just like what I did before. On 6th week ako papacheck up, and hoping na makta agad hb. I’m praying so hard every day and wag na syang bawiin

Magbasa pa
1y ago

Thanks po. Last yr november lang yun, kaya sariwa pa yung pain hanggang ngayon. I pray for our complete healing, physically and psychologically.

Ganyan din Friend q mhie... Unang ultasound walang heartbeat. Pinainom cya ng pampakapit. Then nag pa ultrasound cya ulit, negative pa rin... Sinabihan cya ng OB niya na itigil nalang ang pag inom ng pampakapit at hinatayin nalang na lalabas. Kaya ayon tinigil niya pero makalipas ang isang buwan tuloy2 parin ang pregnancy symptoms niya. Laging nagsusuka kaya tinanong q kung lumabas na ba, wala pa raw. Kaya pinayuhan q na mag pa check up ulit dahil may nakita din kasing myoma during her 1st and 2nd ultrasound baka ano na ang nangyari and to her surprise may heartbeat na si Baby. Kaya para sure mhie pa check ka ulit. Kung talagang nawala man don't worry ibibigay din sa iyo yan sa tamang panahon. Manalig ka lang baka hindi pa ngayon pero darating din yan☺️

Magbasa pa

Had same situation even took a lot of pampakapit na meds but still no heartbeat. Just wait for it to pass out naturally atleast that what happened to mine. When it did, went back to OB, she had me on antibiotic and a medication pampalabas lahat products of conception. Filed for SSS as well. Then got pregnant after 2 months :)

Magbasa pa
1y ago

i had tvs after lumabas ng product of conception. Raspa or D&C usually advisable 10 weeks and above pregnancy. Mahal dn ang raspa (para ka dn nanganak yung gastos😔) Lumabas lang xa ng kusa sa akin (parang dysmenorrhea) Although, ini-advise na ako ng OB ko magpa raspa d na natuloy, I guess our body knows how to heal itself. plus pegnancy is not a disease... Also, i have 3 maliliit na mayoma. I just continued with folic and prenatal vitamins. I remember 3x akong nag tvs all have no heartbeat and everytime papakita ko sa OB ko, advise is always complete bedrest plus ung pampakapit (mahal ng mga gamot na yun) Timeline: 14 - tvs no heartbeat 24 - tvs still no heartbeat. with meds and bedrest 28 - pass out some products of conception even if with medication and bedrest, tvs shows open cervix and meron pa natirang product of conception. OB suggested raspa 30 - lumabas na lahat naturally, tvs done and showed normal na lahat like pre-pregnancy state with mayoma. OB prescribed antibiotic for 7

ganun poh bah ako kc ngaun di ako maka.feel maxado na buntis di ako ngccrave, wala din metallic taste, di di. aki mka.ramdam ng breast tenderness, nausea wala din poh, bloated lang and gas symptoms ko ngaun, ngworried ako kc last year na miscarriage din poh ako.

anu poh mga sintomas nio mi na wala n baby mu before poh kau ngpa.tvs?worried kc ako 4 weeks pregnant di pa makapa.check up kay too early pa di kc ako maka.feel ng symptoms na pregnant poh. . thanks poh

1y ago

but i think it is best po na magkacheck up kana po para mabigyan kana nang vitamins and ano ang kailan mo pong gawin..

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Hi, same experience. I suggest ask you ob kung ano pwede gawin. Since ako hindi ako nagbleed or anything I chose d&c. Dec 18, 2021 - d&c Jan 22, 2022 - confirmed 2nd pregnancy ko.

update: im at a hospital now and naraspa na po ako. waiting to be discharge. maraming salamat sa lahat ng inyong sagot. ❤️🙏

1y ago

Yes, don't worry mamsh. Mabilis majontis ang bagong raspa. Like me. Weeks lang pagitan. Dec 18 raspa, Jan 22 confirm 2nd pregnancy. Basta alagaan mo lang self mo.

thank you poh mii mga nxtweek katapusan pa check up poh cguro ako, ngbleed n poh ba kau?

1y ago

wala po akong bleeding po mi.

balik po kau sa OB at magtanong on what to do next.

Ano po ang nararamdaman niyo sa katawan sa ngayon?

1y ago

yung sa 4 weeks po ninyo na urz ulit, hindi po kayo nagbleeding or nanigas ang puson kahit fetal demise na raw si baby?