Hey, fellow husbands. I was wondering if you've ever heard of a behavior called "gaslighting"? My wife says that I tend to do it, and all I can find is that it means that I shift blame? Have your wives ever told you this? How did you shape up?

Based on obseservation, my husband keeps the blame in order not to ignite the argument. But I think, deep inside, he really want s to shift the blame, because at the end of the day, all egos intend to get hurt. It's just a matter of handling the situation properly. But yeah, I believe, it's normal to everyone not just to men.