di kami OK ng family ko since 10+yrs ago. do i advise them na I'm about to be a mom?

feeling ko kasi makaka-add lng sila ng mental and emotional strain sakin ngayon, mejo maselan pa nman pagbubuntis ko. pero iniinsist ng partner ko, kasi gawa ng financial help nadin, kasi pandemic, at hirap tlga kami magbudget ngayon. open for your feedback/suggestions po, thankyou