Earlier, I told my husband that making love is not only about him, its not about making him tired so he can sleep right after, its not about pleasuring only him, its about the two of us, to enjoy our moment together to make our relationship stronger and happier.

What's his response? Did he fully understand that women have sexual needs too? You should make him understand that you have urges and needs too that he needs to satisfy in order for your sex life to work. Show him that you can be sexual too and take control. Hold the leash for a change, action speaks louder than words 😉