Don't know am I alone or is this normal. The entire pregnancy we didn't make love till our lo is born and almost 13mo we had less than the amount of a hand. Since the last session till to date it been 3months. He never once initiate to make love since pregnancy till now. Am always the one who asked for it and 101% I didn't get what I want. Was always rejected by him. Tried to dress sexy, make the baby sleep before he come home, etc. With all the efforts all I get was the same old excuses, if dress sexily = why waste money on such stuff( ok it's my money), it's all about WORK every single time and honestly am sick and tired of hearing it. Sexually frustrated and feeling hurt deep down. All this plus taking care of a kid isn't easy at all. All this add up to me being nasty, short temper, easily angry. But he don't know... We have tried to speak ALOT of times about this issue often me ended up crying and it's always the same old repeating reasons. Feeling lost...

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Whatever u said sounds very familiar... though my experience was for a longer period. My husband and I prob only had sex when trying for a baby and not other times after our 2nd year of marriage. Even when I asked for it, he will say no or "I rather use my hand". I eventually found out after 7 years (we are married for 9 years) that he has been cheating on me and thats why he lost interest me. I am not saying your husband definitely has cheated on you but there are some things u should open your mind to the possibilities to and not be blindsided by me because I really trusted him.

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