Sad mum

Does any mummy feel like their social life have change after having kids? Sometime i secretly feel so upset knowing all my friends are out at night having dinner and drinks.

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Yup. I havnt even enter a cinema theatre since my child was born more than 2 years ago. Theres never a night I spent without my child. But my heart is full.

1y ago

My child and I just watched cinema last last week. It's fun to see his reactions while watching. Everything is so perfect!

Yeap felt like a second option to those friends i have.. But hey.. Real friends remember to check on you.. If they don't i feel is better to make new ones..

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I feel the same way. I felt like the whole world keeps on moving and I'm stuck just right here. I always look at my baby to make me feel better.☺️

Haha yes, big change but just tell yourself it’s temporary and you’ll be able to do that when your child gets older and is less dependent on you ☺️

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Me totally change! I don't even have time for myself. Partly also I choose to be hands on but I do miss night life which I can have cos I'm bf mama

5y ago

Yes! Being a mama not easy.

Definitely change as life has to adapt along with our LO. But I’m sure you’ll lead a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

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The life I've sacrificed. I had enough of fun, so it doesn't bother me much. I'd rather go out with my husband and kids!

feel free to take a break every now & then :) let your husband or family take care of your LO for a few hours or a day?

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Yes.. Even during pregnancy If your friends are not in the same life stage as you, there are very little common topics

I am your opposite.. my friends have babies.. am feeling alone..while they r busy with their babies..