Do you allow other people to discipline to your child/children?
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Maybe kung mother ko, but other people? No. Madalas pag ibang tao mag didisiplina they don't have limits or boundaries. Di rin matututo ang bata, baka ma trauma pa or magtanim ng sama ng loob. Di katulad pag magulang ang nag disiplina, they know the approach to use in order for the child to listen and understand. Maipapaunawa mo bat mali or hindi tama yong nagawa niya. May concern ka sa mental and emotional health ng bata cause you know him or her well unlike pag sa ibang tao. Isa pa kids especially toddlers listen more to their parents not from other people. So a discipline from other people will not be very effective, it would cause harm to the child than good. Ang ending verbal abuse lang nakuha ng bata pag galing sa ibang tao yong pag di disiplina. So pag may nagawa ang bata it's better to just tell the parents.

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For me,. Sometimes. Motto ko tlaga pag may kasalanan or may problema sa anak ko sabihin saken tapos ako magdidisiplina pero aminin man naten o hindi minsan kailangan naten ng gabay ng mas mga matatanda o magulang mismo naten di naman lahat ng bagay alam naten diba. Pero mas ako bilang ina ang nagdidisiplina kasi mas kilala ko ugali ng anak ko at mas nakikinig sila saken.

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No po, kc naranasan q yan hinahayaan ng mama q na pagalitan at saktan aq ng ibang tao pag may kasalanan aq. Ang nangyari nawalan aq ng kumpyansa sa sarili feeling q hnd aq kayang protektahan ng magulang q. Kya hnding hindi aq papayag na may ibang didisiplina sa anak q. Kung pangangaralan lng payag aq pero ung pagalitan at saktan d aq papayag.

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I grew up, seeing my parents allow other people to discipline us (in front of them) And TBH, it doesn't feel right. It never feels right. 🥺 So ngayon, what i do to Pabby, i defend or reason out for him in front of others whether he'll have tantrums or what. Then, I'll talk to him in private to tell his actions were wrong.

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YES! Hindi sa pagiging mahigpit sa kanila, pero importante yun para sa kanila pati sa mga magulang na dapat nadedesiplina ng maayos ang bata. para lumaking may takot sa magulang at hindi rin sila mapariwara idisiplina sa tamang pamamaraan para hindi rin sila maging spoiled.

I work in a Montessori school and I know how my colleagues discipline their students and their own children based on the training we went through and so, if I need help with the discipline of my child, I would seek help from them.

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if there's something na need idiscipline sa anak ko. sabihin nila sakin. para akyat ang mag disiplina. dahil iba Iba opinyon ng tao. baka malito lng ang bata

Other people means my family only..Pero kung makita mo ibang tao mismong anak nila di kayang disiplinahin anak nila they then it's questionable?

Nope maybe my family. But not other people I won't let them kasi Di natin alam na ang pag discipline nila ba ay tama

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As much as possible no, we will be the one to initiate it so we can better explain what's wrong with what they did.