baby stop carrying when mil carry

Dear mummies My mil and i are taking care of baby together. I am currently on ML. It hurts me that baby stop crying when my mil carry and crylike murder when i carry. I feel jealous toward my mil and even a tinge of hate toward baby for stop crying when my mil carry. I sometime secretly hope that baby cry when my mil carry so that i knows baby cry cause of some other reason rather than just want to be attached to my mil. It doesnt feel right to me as a mum that baby seek comfort with my mil and not from his own mum How do i handle this emotion? This is so wrong and unhealthy.

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Initially maybe you will feel jealous now.. When the baby is slightly older and keep crying for nothing.. Thats when you wish your mother in law carry longer.. Cause it super Tiring when thier weight increase to more than 5kg onwards .. Get well tested if you can.. Don't bother about baby crying that u can't sooth them.. I get annoyed if my baby keep crying for hours everyday once she had Colic. I wish someone could do the carrying instead.. I need peace. And rest. And, ultimately it's your baby, when they grow even older they will still want mummy more than granny.

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