Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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Hi mummy. My husband does not folllow me to all my appointments. As I work shift and he works 9-5. It is easier for me to go on my own and set my own appointment dates. He usually have to take leave and follows only during major check ups like full scanning or blood tests. Even if I went alone, I do let him know the appointment dates and he will follow up and ask about it. I think it’s better to share your stress with each other. Just let him know your appointment dates so he can follow up even if he didn’t accompany you. The pregnancy journey is for two. So share and enjoy the burden or the joy together.

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