Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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Hi mummy, my husband follows me to almost all appts except for one. I was adamant he didn't need to follow so that he can save up on his leaves, but he was adamant that he wanted to see baby on each visit. I'm sure your husband is that way as well. Attend each appt with an open heart instead of a worried one. Have faith that baby is doing well, and even if baby isn't, doctor is there to help and hubby is there to comfort you. So don't worry mummy! All the best 😘

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