Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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We didn't talk about it.. He just automatically goes with me for all my appointments. I guess it's easier for him too as he's self-employed so his schedule is flexible. I would be fine going by my own as well. But I think it would be nice to just let him know when you're going.