Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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So far yes, hubby is with me for all the appts up till now.. we didn’t specifically talk about at the start whether he should accompany for all the visits, it just naturally happened this way. On days where it clashes with his work he will ask if I can reschedule to another time/ day where he can join. I guess what matters is he’s at least in the know of the appts/progress — can’t make physically also nvm for me. For milestone checks I do get nervous/stressed too, but having company always helps mentally (at least for me) cos men usually be the one v grounded and level headed, reminding us not to panic even tho they may be panicking inside they wouldn’t show.

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