Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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My hubby went to almost all appointments, unless couldn’t because of work. Your husband may be upset because it’s his baby too and he also has emotions even if he doesn’t show it. Better to be honest with him, otherwise when the baby is born will you also hide information about the baby from him if you are worried? That’s not healthy…

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